Category: Jeff
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When Suggesting Poloyamory
As the collective conversation about embracing human sexuality extends to a broader range of ideas, more and more people are asking the question: “Is monogamy really the best choice for everyone?” Although polyamory has only recently gotten its big moment in the spotlight, it’s far from being a new practice. Evidence of polyamorous relationships goes…
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On Having a Love Practice
Remember when your teacher told you that you had to do your homework and practice learning? The deeper I go into the study of sexuality and relationship the deeper I go into the concept of “practice”. Hardly anyone likes to practice and put sex and relationship in the same sentence as “Practice” and people kinda…
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A Complimentary Reading List
We often get asked for recommended reading. Here is a brief list we often recommend. Tantra & Sacred Sexuality Tantra: The Art of Conscious Loving, by Charles and Caroline Muir Women’s Anatomy of Arousal: Secret Maps to Buried Pleasure, by Sheri Winston, CNM, RN, LMT The Multi-Orgasmic Man: How Any Man Can Dramatically Enhance His…
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Consider a new script
There is no doubt that relationships are changing around the world and it’s a multifaceted topic of continuous discussions. What was once a universal institution that only involved two people of the opposite gender living ‘happily’ ever after is being questioned and tested in the developed world. In many cultures we’ve been taught that we…
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What are you bringing to the relationship table?
As we listen to stories of sequential failed relationships, it becomes clear to us that many well-intended people continue to make four significant mistakes: They choose to relate with the wrong people; yearn for improbable outcomes; don’t learn from past mistakes; and/or are not able to recognize the early cues that signal they’re on the…
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Declaration of Sexual Rights
DECLARATION OF SEXUAL RIGHTS In recognition that sexual rights are essential for the achievement of the highest attainable sexual health, Intimate Coaching: STATES that sexual rights are grounded in universal human rights that are already recognized in international and regional human rights documents, in national constitutions and laws, human rights standards and principles, and in…
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Receiving IS Giving
I was talking with a female intern the other day. We talked about why it’s so hard for so many people to fully receive sexually. I often encounter women who have difficulty in receiving and it can present itself many ways. At the root of not being able to receive is the way we are…
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Resentment in Relationships & how to Recognize and Repair it
Resentment is one of the top destroyers of personal relationships. It is often so prevalent and chronic in some long term relationships that it goes unnoticed. It becomes normalized. Resentment is often a complex emotion to unmask. Sometimes it manifests itself as boredom. Other times it manifests itself as mild persistent annoyance. And other times…
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A Garden
A Garden. Rose and I often go to the Botanical Gardens for our walks. It is close and a beautiful space to slow down and enjoy. You will never find a garden in wild nature, but around every corner you will find joy, love, and the beautiful symphony of flowers. A garden is a concept…
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Sexual Energy-The Magical Key
YOUR SEXUALITY IS YOUR MAGIC KEY You can do as much personal development and even deep spiritual work as you like, but as long as you are hiding from your own sexual shame, traumas and insecurities you are going to be trapped. I’ve worked with people who have spent years and years getting very real…